For the past few weeks I have been swimming in a cloud of darkness. Most mornings when I wake up it doesn’t take any time for it to wrap itself around my heart and mind. These days are quite frankly a little difficult to get through, yet somehow I do.
I came to learn last night that this darkness is an overwhelming amount of oppression, coming from the source that does not want us to succeed in any endeavor we undertake. Somehow, he paints the picture that the darkness is our doing, our fault and we are weak because we are experiencing it. I had begun to wonder if these lies were truths and what had I done to create such a nasty place in myself.
Questions of why were abounding in my mind…why does He take us to and well beyond our breaking point? why does He want us to feel like we are alone? why does He show me things that are so big and seemingly distant without showing me how? why does He not answer the many prayers that I have uttered? why am I so weak that I cannot endure this well? why does it seem that there are more questions than answers? why does it feel like the load I am carrying continues to get heavier as I get weaker?
As I shared all of this with my husband he simply smiled, kissed me and said, “I think you are amazing.” He said, “The one thing you haven’t done is give up, even though you are close. You continue to search for Him and seek His voice.” Feeling anything but amazing I let the tears flow. I just needed something….anything from Him.
Last night also happened to be the night of no sleep. My sweet daughter came down with a little summer bug which was not restful for either one of us. I didn’t feel I had much to give, so cried with her and for her. She said, “Mom, when we don’t feel like we have anything else we should just pray.” Her faith was inspired and healing. I allowed my heart to draw on the little faith it had left for her.
This morning she reached a point that she needed to sleep, so I curled up on the floor next to the couch where she was resting. During those moments before and after deep sleep I had a sweet feeling come through my mind and heart. “It is all for you. I do all of this for you. Hold on.”
Sometimes He needs to take us to a breaking point and past so that He can teach us and show us how He works. I see things differently after all of this than I did before. I have so far to go, but knowing it is all for us, because He loves us gives me strength to go on.